The niceties and "us" talk continues. I told my counselor about it yesterday. He basically said that these are signs that she's considering reconciliation but nothing more than that.

He also stated that I confuse my wife because I don't react the way that she thinks I will. He thinks that her P/A and some of her anger towards me is a poor attempt to see passion from me. He stated that in many ways she is behaving like a teenager.

He also stated that she might see my beta behavior as apathy and that is why she thinks that I don't love her. I thought all along that her P/A behavior was to get me angry so that she has a good reason to justify her wanting to leave.

While his theories are interesting, they are indeed educated guesses at this point.

BD: 5/28/17 "We're like roommates, there is no passion anymore"
Early October she is moving out so she can "think about what she really wants in life"
10/22/17 She's gone