That's cool, at least you got something to work with. I think breaking it down is also a good strategy.
I wish my W would have given me concrete reasons that I could try to attack. Unfortunately she didn't do a lot of communicating with me so I have just tried to attack are things that are good for me but would also appear on her radar screen as well.
OH no, I did not really get anything concrete.
I want you to be happy and healthy You are always miserable You don't take the lead We just aren't compatible.
I never got a level of specificity. I tried really hard to get specifics. In the end, I had to determine what that meant to ME.
I asked, what would be the first sign that I was happy and healthy.
Her response was, "I don't know know what that means to you"
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
