Originally Posted By: SwHubby

The goal tonight is:
- Understand what W thinks I am constantly doing to offend W.


I wouldn't go there right now. You're negotiating the divorce terms and visitation with your D, so that needs to be 100% of your focus. Set aside DB'ing for now and focus on this solely as a business-like transaction. You can delve into feelings (offending W) later when this is all resolved.

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- Get her to consider government mediation and hopefully accept it on the spot. She has been uncertain in the past.


Not sure about "on the spot", but perhaps give her a deadline (a few days maybe) to decide.

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I was thinking about talking about how she is treating me and D, but that would probably just make everything else harder to accomplish right now.


See my first paragraph up above, this convo needs to wait as well.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57