Don't change for her, change for yourself, if you want to.
For me, I am changing for me. But the things I am changing ARE things that W pointed out were an issue. So I had to reflect on that.
I even had a blog post about this very topic, Motivation for change.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
