That's the hard part not come across as cold, angry etc. I try to mix it up some. She sent me a text last night telling me she was not going to be at my d's soccer practice last night. I didn't respond to it. She does the same thing to me so I didn't worry about it and at the end of the day she is not going to D me over me not responding to a text.
I will see her tonight and act my normal upbeat and positive self with no talks of our R or D.
In a way, I guess it is nice to be able to see her at practice. More interaction to guage the situation and see a change.
In my sitch, we see each other for under 10 minutes a week, during handoff on Friday or Sunday.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017