That's the hard part not come across as cold, angry etc. I try to mix it up some. She sent me a text last night telling me she was not going to be at my d's soccer practice last night. I didn't respond to it. She does the same thing to me so I didn't worry about it and at the end of the day she is not going to D me over me not responding to a text.
I will see her tonight and act my normal upbeat and positive self with no talks of our R or D.