Later, I sent her a text telling her I signed D6 up for a special science class and put it on the calendar, so she would know. Never got a response.
My W does that to me all the time. I just realized that I have to communicate with her for kid related stuff and to not expect a response back. Sometimes she responds and other times she does not. I also realized she is generally more friendly via text/email than she is in person.
It used to bother me but now it doesn't
Over the last couple of weeks I have tried to be more responsive to her and friendly when emailing/texting on kid issues. Before I was strictly 1 word and/or no responses at all unless it was a question.
I have seen no changes in her attitude towards me with either approach. We even shared a couple of beers at my d's soccer practice. Based on this I am going back to delivering her short answers, etc. as it helps me to continue with detaching.
Yeah J9. I don't know if I should continue to just be very scarce on words, or if I should be a little more elaborate in my answers.
I know W told me her walls were starting to come down, but I don't really believe it. On the other hand, I don't want to come off as cold. I don't think that will make me appear to be an enjoyable person to be around.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
