Quote from tim47: --------------------- Wow, nop... you sound poetic! You speak as one who has found true enlightenment. Please, share with us! 5-7 times/week??? I agree with hairdog... you MUST let us know what that's like! Only the Palmer Twins have been that enthusiastic in my house... ---------------------
Hi, Tim.
No real enlightenment, just a return to normalcy, albeit a couple decades late.
In the early years of our marriage, there was a lot of 'activity' :-) I don't expect to return to those levels, but we both want our relationship to return to its former 'ease' for lack of the proper term. Sex for us was once an extension of our love, and we both want to return to that. Nothing existential about that. I though that was what we were all doing here :-)
Daily+ was normal for us once, so we are trying to return to some semblance or normalcy - for us. It is certainly different for everyone. As for what it is like for us, well, a long overdue return to normal :-)
Oh, and I should confess, I have been keeping a calendar, even though I profess to not being a counter. It is useful to at least mark ones progress :-)
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
