That was a great post, Nopkins. I don't know if you were around when I gave my W the book, but I was very full of trepidation before I did it. When I finally gave it to her, she went ballistic, (as I had expected), but then she settled down. Went went through some more rocky parts, and now we're doing better. It was very scary to give it to her. But it was worth it. She hasn't read it fully, but it is sitting around, and she may decide, one day, to read it. So far, she has used it, for the most part, to show me what I, the HD spouse, have done wrong. I hope she gets past that and reads the part about LD spouses.

5-7 times a week? You are a god.

Are you happy with your R? How happy, on a scale from 1 (not) to 10 (delirious)? How does it compare to one year ago?

Hairdog, who is curious.