Celebrated my Mom's birthday yesterday and WW was there. Stayed out of each others way for the most part. I was calm, confident, pleasant and engaging with my family and WW. Felt good because this was the first time in 27 years that I planned and executed everything for my Mom's BDay...usually WW took care of getting the present and organizing the get together. This year I organized the get together, bought the food, picked out the present, got flowers, made the cake, and cooked dinner.
As WW was leaving she came over and gave me a full hug for a good 20-30 seconds. Not reading into it but the last few times she has tried the one armed "friend" hug. I closed and locked the front door behind her...normally I would've followed her out(pursuing) and said goodbye at the car!
Today as we're working out the logistics for tomorrows family therapy, WW texts: WW: Thank you for last night...it was a nice time. Me: It was nice I think my Mom enjoyed herself WW: Definitely
Then I switched the convo back to goals and logistics for family therapy.
WW: I'd like to discuss living arrangements Me: You know my feelings on living arrangements
I think my Mom enjoyed herself