Just don't be spiteful and mean. Detach with love. It's hard I know.
I'm probably jumping the gun... she'll probably never ask for my help, but if she does, does anyone have any suggestions as to a reply that won't sound spiteful and mean?
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17