1. I have read the book and a few others. She will not read the book but did read an article about it in a magazine.

2. The principles in the book are making a difference. She has agreed to "Just do it".

3. I don’t feel that she is making a big effort although if you asked her she would say she is. It‘s my birthday today and she had a few presents for me this morning. I could see the pleasure on her face as she gave them to me but it just didn’t come across to me as love. I on the other hand cuddled her tenderly and told her how much I loved her but I got the impression that she wasn’t feeling loved. She was feeling “pressure”.

SD - I was never any good at foreign languages.