The one thing I can say about h and drugs, at least historically, is that he's a tee totaler.
Has a very healthy respect/fear/neurosis of them.
Had surgery twice and ALWAYS takes the least amount of pain meds possible (fool!) Barely drinks.
both his parents were functioning alcoholics who kind of terrorized h early on. H was older of 2 boys.
When his parents were separated and prepping for divorce, his dad was overseas. Then h's mom "got weird" at home with h's younger brother in fear. This was while h was in freshman year of college 5 hours away.
H came home to see that his mom needed hospitalization for psychiatric problems, and while he was figuring out how or if to do this, h's mother tried to kill h as he was the "anti Christ".
H gets her committed and arranges care for his high school brother by personally going to the school and getting his brother some help. H manages to commute weekends to college and back, and gets a 4.0
When h's mom gets released 6 weeks later, she's extremely remorseful. (Rest in Peace mil)
And No one seems to hold it against her but I'm sure it was freaking traumatic. And I know h was resistant to ever later admitting when she was having another episode. I hate to say this but I spotted those things coming first and would tell h, "h, your mom is starting to need to adjust OR TAKE her meds again..."
and I swear, as we aged, it was as if h forgot those periodic weirdnesses and later on, I got to be the anti-Christ. Wow, fun times...
I'm not going into h's FOO problems for several reasons. Plus I have some of my own.
I guess I think if h were ever going to get into drugs I'd think it would have happened by now.
WHO KNOWS?
Please reaffirm for me that it's not my problem, now?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
