W wants a Divorce.. Again

[lostrig]

Has your W filed for D again this time?

I admit, if I were in your shoes I'd probably feel down that this was the second time around. Do you think GAL and 180s are worth a shot?

The first time around I was the one who actually filed. It was an emotional knee jerk reaction. I was of the mindset that if she wanted a D than I was going to give it to her. I know she has had a few conversations with her L and I don't believe it will be difficult to pick up where we left off last year in terms of paperwork.
As far as GAL and 180s I don't really have much of a choice but to get out and have some fun. There came a point last summer during the separation that I was really enjoying myself. In fact there are times since I've been back that a little part of me kind of misses the freedom that came along with being separated. I feel I have maintained my 180s from last year so if I 180 to hard I'll be right back where I was.
My W is also an incredibly jealous person. When we first started dating in 2002 I was seeing other women, I was in my mid 20's and just having fun. We had only been seeing each other a short while and we weren't seriously involved. Once our relationship became more involved I stopped dating other women but of course she found out about it a few months in and acted as if I was cheating on her. She actually brought this up again yesterday which really surprised me. She also took a trip to Canada in July and when she returned was making strange comments. The first was that there was Corona in our fridge and she asked who was here drinking that beer as Corona has never been one of preferred beers. She also mentioned that our bed frame was squeaking and must have been from all the wild sex I was having when she was gone. She said it kiddingly at the time so I didn't really put much thought into it.