Originally Posted By: holding

Is it fair to say that after you reconciled last year, things never really got back into a good place?

Do you suspect OM?

Do you think going back to DB'ing and GAL won't work this time?


Actually when we reconciled last October everything was going really good until around Spring of this year. We were spending more time together and it felt like those were some of the happiest moments of our marriage.

I suppose anything is possible but I don't believe there to be OM involved.

Part of me really wants to make this M work and keep our family together. I know how rare it is to actually reconcile after separation when DP have been filed. I'm not sure if its possible to save a second time around.


Me: 42
W: 47
S: 10
M: Almost 10 in Oct
T: 15
1st BD: Feb 2016
Divorce Filed: Mar 2016
Separated: Mar 2016
Reconciled: Oct 2016
2nd BD: Aug 2017