1. Yes, we've both read it. 2. I'm not sure. I do think it has made a difference in MY outlook, and of course it led me HERE, and the support and encouragement I get HERE are helping me to find different things to try, SOME of which are making a difference, at least for now. I think it's a little too early to tell... 3. Yes, we are both actively seeking to repair our relationship, albeit from different perspectives...