Hey lostrig, it sounds like there's a lot more to your sitch than you've shared with us.
The communication issues jump out at me, especially with the way fights seem to pop up out of nowhere.
Originally Posted By: lostrig
Does she truly hate me this much or is this her dealing with her own struggles and taking it out on me? She was bringing up things from 15 years ago to point out how bad of a person I am.
She's probably taking it out on you. It sounds like she's mad at herself (maybe for something she thinks you "made her do").
Has there been any other discussion of why she wants this, other than what you discussed in your initial post?
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18