2. Yes and no. Probably because I've been the motivated one and have been putting too much pressure on my W. I guess I'm proving that one of the principles works - "too much pressure = less desire". It was a good "introduction" to the changes I wanted to make in the marriage because we had (for 10 years) never even talked about relationship issues. It might be good to re-read when my W doesn't feel so disconnected from me. Also I think my W tuned out when she saw the "just do it" statement.
3. We are in counseling now and W wants to get back to a better marriage but (my worry) she has also learned to be very independent and not too needy in terms of the relationship. This makes her motivation pretty low because she's not seeking the level of intimacy and passion that I'm seeking.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
