Sounds like we are shaping up to have a date. What date works for you AS and TxHubby? Sending up a flare.
It most likely will be a Saturday seeing that AS has to travel from Dallas and Holding has to travel from Houston.
Sorry about that, I got busy at work last week and had to drop off the forums a bit. This is a bad time of year for me to make a weekend trip but when the weather gets colder maybe I can join y'all!
Originally Posted By: joejoe1
So let me ask you, she has access to all my accounts. Do I take her off of them?
Are the accounts joint or are you primary on them? If they are joint then you may not be able to remove her without her involvement. When my XW and I went about the business of getting her off of our mutual accounts and such, we had to make a bunch of phone calls with both of us on the line because typically both parties have to give permission for the change. But if you're primary and she just has access then I think you can do it yourself.
Some people here are dealing with spouses that drain accounts and rack up CC debt with no warning, clearly if your W is like that you may want to quietly change things if you can. But others (like my XW) are more reasonable and if your W is more like that then it's something the two of you should sit down and discuss before making the transition.
