1. No, I've read it but my husband hasn't; and I'm re-reading it and putting into practice Michele's advice to just do it. 2. I should probably answer this n/a since we both haven't read the book; but the book is making a difference along with the posts on this board from some of the guys who explain how they feel rejected when their wives turn them down. 3. Yes, we're both actively seeking to repair the relationship. He and I both recently read His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley, and he's trying really hard, and succeeding, at meeting the needs that I identified as mine. I'm also working really hard to meet his needs, especially for physical affection (which to him includes not only sex but foot rubs and back rubs) and admiration, and have apologized for hurting him.
Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Will Rogers
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. C. S. Lewis
