I asked my wife not to the OM on our house phone, she did it again today. Should this be a boundary, now what consequence can I give for her doing this. The other thing is, it's me snooping. Is this a boundary, or me trying to control?

Also I was thinking about taking back control of all the finances, my wife has been paying the bills and dividing the money up. Should I take this part of our life back?

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.