Good GAL weekend. Went drinking with some friends Sat night, then went shooting at the range yesterday morning.
W asked when she should start D on her new piano schedule, b/c I told her I already had plans with the kids for the coming weekend.
She then texted and stated if it was an issue to just let her know bc she didn't want to be inconsistent with when D would go. I tried to validate, and simply responded "I understand"
She also stated that D needed to practice every day, and offered to go half on a keyboard so D can practice at my Apt. I politely declined, and stated that I would handle it. I went out and bought one for D that D and I agreed would be efficient for her needs. Not that I wanted to spend my own money on it (yeah, it'd be nice to have W pay for it too), but I wanted W to know that I do not need her help financially.
I feel that I am making absolutely ZERO progress with my DBing, and often wonder if I should just give in, but I am not giving up. I know that it take an extreme amount of patience.
I am coming closer to dropping the rope every day though. That, to me, is progress.
Should I text W and let her know I got the Keyboard, or simply say nothing. I want her to know I followed through on my word (IMO building trust) or just let her think whatever she wants about how I handled it? I'm sure D will tell her tonight anyway.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017