LRT is my 180

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To be clear, I'm not vindictively attempting to screw her over with these bills. I gave her credit for half of our HSA balance, and she's now simply responsible for the rest. Just life - deal with it. You want to be on your own, guess what: you'll have bills of your own then.

She usually sees these things thru a different lens than me, however.

We'll see...