Coworker just came by to check on me. He went thru W infidelity and divorce a few years back and seems ok now. He and I hadn't spoken since I started DBing. I didn't reveal DR/DB but told him some of my GALing things (didn't use the term tho) and my lack of expectations regarding W. I admitted the occasional struggles.
He said, "It's good, you're fine."
Tomorrow might be interesting. I'm expecting W to pick up her mail in the morning and see the med bills and my note. Won't be surprised if she blows up at me, which I will likely ignore, btw.
Me48 W46 D22 D20 T30 M28 BD/PA revealed 05/2017 W moved out 06/2017 DB started 9/6/2017
