Just got an interesting email from my W. She's having problems with her hip, and has scheduled a doctor's appt for Wednesday, which means she can't go to work this week as planned. (She's a flight attendant.) With her history, I wouldn't be surprised if she has surgery. She's had a LOT of surgeries in the last few years.
A part of me says "Oh, that's a shame. I hope she's alright."
The far larger part of me says "Ha! Who's going to take care of you NOW, bitch?!?!"
I'm not proud of that, but there it is.
Maybe I'm not quite as detached as I thought..... or, maybe I'm just a horrible person.
You are not a horrible person, but if you are like me, we want our WW to learn a lesson. We did some things in our marriage that weren't the best, but we are fixing ourselves and they want to prove to us that they can live without us. Here is a chance for you to prove she can't and that makes you feel good. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't be spiteful and mean. Detach with love. It's hard I know.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
