I meant to say you are not going to be able to figure out what she is thinking. Right now you are probably confused by her actions. My wife was nice a few days and I got suckered in and pushed out again a few days later. Sandi2 and 25 gives the best advice for this area. If your wife has truly returned she will fell remorse and apologize. She will start chasing you. You still need to GAL, give her space and maybe you can give up a little bit and see how she act. If she starts rejecting then go back to DBing.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
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This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.