I so relate to that sense of being overwhelmed but feeling the need to be the superhuman one that makes everything happen. All through my life are the voices constantly saying "I don't know how you do it all." I shouldn't have tried.
Yes, take one thing at a time. It really is the only way to eat an elephant. This goes back to controlling only the things you can control.
Do you really believe your H hates you? Mine says that to me and I assume others. Then he sobs in my presence worried about whether I'll be safe. It's crap and you know it.
So what if he laughs in your face. That is a reflection of him and who he is. Don't you want to be the rational one who can make unemotional decisions for the betterment of the situation?
Breaking NC gives some momentary pain. I'm not going to lie. I always feel worse afterward. But sometimes there is business that needs to happen.
Get ready for your kids and give it some thought. Sometimes when the game isn't working you need to switch up the offense.
