Sorry about the break in threads! Strangely enough I used the "elephant in the room" phrase in one of the earlier sessions. Everything you stated is correct. During the confrontation she readily agreed to MC. In the week or so after the confrontation she stated she would do anything for the MR including the affair, stating that she had made a huge mistake. But as Sandie told me, for them to continue to work together is not healthy for the MR. So, yes, I think that major conversation will have to be dealt with ASAP.

thanks


Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains