I have a couple questions to ask the experts on here. First is WW's birthday is next week, how do I handle this? I will treat it as any other day, I will not be acknowledge her birthday at this point. Do I take the kids shopping to get her something from them? What should I do here??

Second question, I know that I shouldn't care what she is doing but I have reason to believe she now has a local guy that she may be seeing. Do I even care about this? Do I confront or just let it go and keep on living my life? I really don't care but if she is then my first thought is to confront and tell her it's time to move out! I do not want this around my children! I can't 100% confirm this but my gut feeling has been spot on all this time and I get that feeling with this. Please help, need some sound/sane advice here.


Me 47 WW 44
T25 yrs M20
S18 S14 D12
Divorced 3/12/2018