Ok I just read your post. I need time to process that. You are right. 100% all of it. Except that I thought not caring was detaching. I'm at work now so I'm going to read this over again and let it sink in tonight when I am alone. Thank you.

Me: 41 H: 45
T:21 yrs
S:16 D: 13 S: 12
BD: October 2016