So since making that statement about I don't care if he comes home or not and let's get this over with, he won't sit down with me. I'm frustrated beyond measure. I want my life back and to stop playing his games. I'm not interested in being his doormat. I'm not interested in pushing a divorce. But how do I get my point across that I'm ok with ending this. I've said it, I've left him alone. I truly don't care what he does now. I've come right out and asked him to sit down and go over things. He won't.
I did however get a response when he said for me to move on. I asked what he meant by that. As I had already told him at that point that I didn't care if he moved back or not. And he said for me to stop assuming he has a gf. He doesn't. And every time he answers a text to assume it's a gf. So I said fine. I won't assume anymore.
Anyways. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I think at this point it's a lost cause, as of October it will be a year.
