Hi Maika
in answer to your question I have no idea if it is going on to the extent that it was. I can easily find out at a later date through my "methods" but I choose not to at this stage as I am feeling quite OK in myself at the moment and "I come first" of course. I am absolutely availed of the forum's views of MC and know there could be lip service being paid on the W's part. The discussions have been pretty good up until now but the next ones might be even more illuminating. Is she has taken it underground she probably feels she is dealing with MC as "my old wife" whilst holding back. That is why I would appreciate advice on the forum on ways to "tease" this information out.


Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains