Treasur,

This is such an apt description
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They either avoid things or flip-flop around, and their brains seem to be a bit like cheese with holes.


Ok, unless the preview screen is bonkers I may have finally figured out how to quote (but of course I haven't figured it out with the poster's name yet. Baby steps.

Yes, my H avoids everything. And he flip flops. Then he forgets what he just said or did. I always joke that every 5 minutes he is a new guy.

You still have lots of feeling and emotions about your H. Mine is no longer about love or hope, but more just logistical and trying to find ways to live my life with as little interference from him as possible. I think you'll be able to let go of the pain soon, I really do. i see the sun peaking over the horizon and it looks quite beautiful from here.