Your letter about the awards was so touching I thought "geez, I'd give anything to have a H who craved quality time with our children. you are a gem.
I almost considered converting just to meet a guy like you! Okay that might be pushing it but - you are one of the good ones and I think you will meet a lovely valuable woman.
I am 11 months from filing and reeling) . Some health issues prevented me from taking in the events (I had seizures and new medication really interfered with my short term memory. I'm fine now! but the early months are a fog.
As I begin to enter the dating world, I live in my old stomping grounds now and so there are a few high school guys I know who are interested. I'm very comfortable with one and for now, doing things together is enough for me. I'm making a list of "must haves" and "must NOT have" and the list was to be only one page...
I have a lot to edit!
I'm sorry you felt "all alone" at the event. What happened to you was grossly unfair
and yet it happened. I relate to the "they get away with it???" realization.
Your w, like my stb x, literally cannot see and admit they created a lot of wreckage heaped upon the people who loved them most.
If it were us realizing that we had done that to our children, we would be brought to our knees. Our spouses are not us;
they cannot see the reality b/c they're not self aware enough to grasp it - OR they CANNOT face it b/c it's too damn devastating.
I think the Karma is when they actually MISS us, and what we had; --- whic h they'll never have again.
More later on how not to become a victim of parental alienation
xoxo
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
