Picking up Her MESS

[marina7]

Hello 25yearsmlc,
Thank you for asking we are taking it a day at a time, W drop son off for the weekend W surprise me with the call, but when I answer I was shock and very short due to being busy, I received a text quickly from W saying why so short and standofish I didn't reply I honestly ignore it because W taking one child and separating is not right and I have no financial help or working at the moment due to back surgery. I have been doing the 180 but I stand strongly about her separating kids this should have never happen and I am trying my hardest to get legal help.

So Friday W drop off and other two kids with friend while W drop off, W ask why I let the go if I knew W was dropping son my response was this was plan already I could see it bother but didn't show emotions. W goes no contact all weekend not surprise she has gone two without even a text. So today W pickup S9 I could have kept him but I am going to do this the legal way, I could tell W was unemotional W hasn't seen d9 or s8 in two weeks and d9 was hugging W and just a blank stare. Just empty literally maybe 5 minute total my d9 says will mommy ever give me a real hug again. I of course ask what she meant d9 said she hugs me but let's go and says ok ok bye the old mommy gave me big hugs the warm hugs this broke my heart I said for now you get my bear hugs as I tickle her, I wonder my d is only 9 and she could tell that emotionally W has change.

As I stated earlier everyday is a new day and I could have kept s9 but I am going do this the legal way the way I have done everything else. I just wish she could see what she dong I am understanding that she can't handle all 3kids at once but separating them was a no no I just wonder how she going explain this to a judge. I didn't want it to go this far but I need to protect all three as I could see s9 changing behavior because W is the Disney mom doesn't have him in rules and this weekend he got in trouble for being a brat I explain that in our home here we have rules.

Still wishing to wake up from nightmare... Ask away any questions.