Lost on how to save my marriage! 2

[joejoe1]

25,

We have 4 boys all together. She had a son coming into the marriage and I had a son coming into the marriage. My son lives in New Orleans. And he spends the entire summer and holidays with us.

I have been doing a lot of GALing. But I think you are right that maybe I have been doing a bit of it to get a reaction out of her.

I have grown spiritually. I have joined a church I have went to church consistently the last 5 or 6 weeks. I have lost 36 pounds and counting. I went ziplinning yesterday, I have bungee jumpimg and skydiving lined up in the next fee weeks.

I guess what gets me most is how she walks around mean and stand off ish all the time. It pisses me off.

The OM lives in Maryland and she slept with him in July. It's an old boyfriend from HS, who she says she never got over. She has been having feelings for him since they broke up in HS.

This woman my wife is talking about is an old GF I happen to run across in AZ. I didnt go seeker her out. Once I saw her I realized I didn't have any feelings for her. I told my wife that story now she tries to use it as a bases for, "see you got a chance to figure out about an old GF".