LRT is my 180

[Btrow]

Sister said she's worried about W. W looks tired, thin, and unhappy. And she understands my POV. Perhaps oddly, her observations about W made me feel a little better. Is that some bitterness seeping out of me - wanting W to hurt a little?

I think it's normal to want to see them hurt just a little bit.

Are you sure you should be discussing your sitch with SIL though? Once again, too much information could make your head spin more than nessesary. Just be sure you trust SIL enough, that she doesn't provide information to your W. Words such as detachment and "can't fix" shouldn't reach W..