Definitely hear what your saying with the "why" questions. That was definitely me. Probably ruined some things. But my W would try to manipulate the situation by saying ahe was changing her mind about me. But convientlu that would change when I called her out on her dirt.
Plus most of my "why" were for improvement purposes, so I could know where I went wrong. But I realized that my W was just pulling excuses out of her a** that made no sense whatsoever. So would you say that it was too late for me considering that my W has moved out already?