The w can't discredit what she sees. She may not acknowledge it but she is seeing the changes.
I think I agree, she can see and hear changes, and she is. I just don't know if it's getting through.
I'm starting to wonder if it may not matter, though. After reading a bunch of posts on here...if I'm protecting her from having/owning a loss, I'm just postponing the inevitable, and that makes me really sad.
I do (finally) believe that while we're together, there isn't OM, and I don't want to drive her to that.
I so wish she'd do IC work to process the stuff she's been dealing with over the past couple of years, with her mom, dad, meds, etc. If we're going to be having D discussions, I'd so much rather it be with a clear head, but some things are out of my control.
