That letter is awesome. She will wake up some after letter. Great way to put your foot down and show your strength.

Only thing I think is missing is consquences. What happens if she don't listen to your terms set in the letter. You should those ready when she tries you.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.