1) W has a BFF (female) from college, also going through a tough time in her own M, giving my W "advice"...none of which is going to be particularly helpful to driving a positive outcome
2) W's "therapist" is also helping her get set up for a D. "Therapist" is more of a divorce coach than someone who can help. "Therapist" is also encouraging W to move out, which legally would be really dumb.
W is still conflicted, that part I know, but with friends like these, it's hard to see the success cocktail here.
And it's my birthday. Was hoping to chill just a bit.
