JoeJoe - I want a new normal, but I want the "normal" to equal "healthy" for sure. If we can turn down the anxiety level, we get along great, and positive interactions seem to help alleviate the urgency for her to do something quickly.
I do not like living on needles and pins not knowing where W's head is at. It's maddening.
Regardless, I do plan to keep doing more to make me a stronger, more independent person as that's just smart.
BTW If anyone is in Florida with Irma coming, stay safe.