wow. Cil. you are really a lot different than you were when you got here. I hope you take note of all your hard work. You're a shining example of thriving post D.

I hated being THAT girl in my early 20s with exbf. I hated being THAT girl when exh wanted me to sit gazing adoringly at him while he played guitar in our living room. Dang it - give me a mic and let me join in, is how I feel about it now - and I'm no longer too shy to say it, or belt it out in song!

In dating world I seem to be attracting men in the 65-75 age rage who think I'm the hot young chick who will nurse them in their dotage and hand them their viagra.

No. Thanks.

As far as pinning a type - I think you're getting there and will be able to manifest whatever you want when the time is right

I have faith in you my dear xoxoxo Mwah!


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver