How do you guys and ladies stay in this half in half out of M limbo for the amounts of time i see on here.

Even with GAL everytime another month passes i feel like im back at step one of this... yes i have seen major improvements but

I dont know....

I feel like every good thing i have done in my marriage in the last 25 years means nothing.

M47 W45
S16 D18
M 25
BD January 17