T. So sorry to hear fu*#wit husband is out in full force. You are being so good about working your way through this. I get the ups and downs. I always seem to get messed up after communication with mine. Like you, I don't get the fact they claim they want the divorce then disappear, and then stall and don't cooperate. WTF? Also don't get the lack of common courtesy to let us know when they "change their mind" and suddenly file for divorce, divorce Nisi, etc. Classic. Oye. Don't get me started.
Please don't file for Absolute as knee jerk reaction. You still have to settle financially regardless. Does part of you think if you do it may give him a jolt? I have thought about it that way. Or, would that protect you if he needs to file bankruptcy?
Just get through next week. Hope we are still meeting on Friday. We need a time. 12:30? Did you mean ticket office at main train station or tube station? Is there only one? Never been there. Are we still on? Are we 3 or do we have any others who want to join?
Me-54 H-49 T-1. M-7 BD 6/13 ILYBN I threw him out OW - 3/13 OW2 on and off Overlap w/Ow1and OW3 OW3 - 8/17 H filed 1/17