Going out for a walk on the beach to keep reminding myself that this is not my H, that MLC is crazy and not about me, and the current face of my H is a really rotten kind of person and I deserve much better...

Any encouraging messages from any of you who have been divorced by your MLCer, especially a vanishing/silent one would be really helpful! It does feel a bit mad that I'm getting divorced by someone who has never even bothered to tell me why...


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17