Cadet, even before our discussion I was thinking of leaving a note with her mail. Something like, "Please notify me if you plan on coming to the house, in case I have guests or it's just a bad time." More focused on my privacy than possessions with that.

I feel like there might be legal issues with changing locks and stuff like that. And what do I do about her mail? Make her get some forwarding set up?

Me48
W46
D22
D20
T30
M28
BD/PA revealed 05/2017
W moved out 06/2017
DB started 9/6/2017