I'm thinking those are boundary items if we start to work on R. I believe things are going on right now (no proof) and I haven't filed yet. So I guess I'm still open to reconciling at this point.
They are good things to think through and there is no right or wrong answer. I always assumed the worst in my sitch even though I had no proof. If it is happening my W has not disrespected me on social media with it, flaunts it in front of my face, etc. so that has made it easier in some regards. Just start working on yourself and take the focus off your W.
