Cadet,
Unsure what to do about house access. Sometimes I can tell she has been here and it unnerves me a little, just my anxiety I guess. She took my laundry basket the other day and left my dirty clothes on the floor; that annoyed me a little. I'm keeping DR and related items (notes, articles) with me at all times, so they're not at the house for her to see.
If she's letting the dog out while here, that's a plus.


Me48
W46
D22
D20
T30
M28
BD/PA revealed 05/2017
W moved out 06/2017
DB started 9/6/2017