I had always thought a PA would be a dealbreaker. Turned out it wasn't. But it would be a dealbreaker if it happened again, definitely!
Yes, boundaries and transparency requirements are things I still need to dig into and work out. I agree about 'girls gone wild' - zero tolerance for that.
Avg......the reason why I asked the question was because you said this. It would be a deal breaker if it happened again and you wouldn't tolerate girls gone wild. So she has moved out and if you found out these things were going on now would that cause you to file for D?